Another Pregnancy Post Just Hit Your Feed? Read This — 12
Summer means pregnancy posts, gender reveals, and baby bliss—so what do you do when it all feels like too much?
It happens every year, right on cue.
The sun comes out, the dresses get flowy, and your social feeds transform into a glowing highlight reel of pregnancy announcements, baby showers, and carefully staged bump photos at golden hour.
It’s beautiful—for them.
But for you, it might feel like a gut punch.
Maybe you’ve been trying.
Maybe you’re freshly grieving.
Maybe you thought you’d be the one posting by now.
Wherever you are on this nonlinear, deeply personal path, we want to start by saying this: You are not wrong for how you feel.
You are not bitter.
You are not broken.
You are not behind.
You are navigating a world that doesn’t always make space for silent grief. Especially when that grief collides with other people’s joy.
This time of year can be especially hard for our community. Not because we wish anything bad on anyone else—but because their joy reminds us of our pain. Of what we lost. Of what we’re still waiting for.
And here’s the thing:
It’s okay to look away.
It’s okay to mute.
It’s okay to skip the party or close the app or set a boundary that keeps you afloat.
Self-preservation is not selfish.
In this week’s issue, we’re talking openly about what it means to protect your peace during a season that seems obsessed with new life—when you’re still learning how to live with loss.
We see you. We’re with you. And we’re holding space for all the complicated feelings that come with summer sunshine and invisible grief.
You don’t need to smile through it.
You just need to be honest with yourself—and kind with your heart.
This Week’s Top News Stories:
Lauryn Bosstick Sparks Backlash Over “Fearful” Fertility Struggles Comment
In a recent podcast episode, The Skinny Confidential’s Lauryn Bosstick shared that she conceived each of her three children on the first try—and claimed people are “scared” to talk about “amazing” pregnancy stories because of how triggering they might be. But what she framed as empowerment struck many as dismissive of those who’ve faced infertility and loss. Critics pointed out that her language—referring to stories of struggle as “fearful experiences” and lamenting that they’re too dominant—minimizes the reality so many know firsthand. One commenter responded, “Believing you’ll get pregnant isn’t all it takes. Sincerely, all girls dealing with infertility.” While Lauryn says she didn’t intend to hurt anyone, her comments reopened a necessary conversation: the power dynamics of pregnancy narratives, and who gets to feel seen. At Miscarriage Movement, we’re here to make sure that stories of struggle aren’t sidelined just because they’re harder to hear. They matter—and they belong in the conversation. (Read more)
Can a Common Parasite Be Contributing to Global Fertility Decline?
New research is raising alarm about a surprising potential contributor to the ongoing drop in fertility rates—Toxoplasma gondii, a common parasite found in undercooked meat and cat feces. While toxoplasmosis is often harmless in healthy individuals, a recent study showed that human sperm exposed to the parasite lost their heads—literally. Scientists observed structural damage in nearly a quarter of sperm cells within five minutes of contact. Although testicular toxoplasmosis is rare, especially in immunocompetent people, the study builds on decades of research hinting that parasites may quietly impact reproductive health. For those already navigating infertility or pregnancy loss, this is yet another reminder: there’s still so much we don’t know about the invisible forces affecting fertility. And it’s why we push for deeper research, better education, and more answers. Because fertility struggles aren’t just personal—they’re public health. (Read more)
Texas Woman Jailed for Miscarriage—And She’s Not the Only One
Almost three years post-Roe, the dystopian future many feared has arrived—especially for women who miscarry. In states with fetal personhood laws, a pregnancy loss can trigger criminal investigation, arrest, and even jail time. Case in point: Mallori Patrice Strait, who spent nearly five months behind bars in Texas after miscarrying in a public bathroom. She was charged with “corpse abuse,” despite having done nothing wrong. Her charges were dropped—but the trauma remains. She's not alone. At least 210 pregnancy-related prosecutions were recorded in the year after Roe was overturned, disproportionately targeting low-income women and women of color. If a fertilized egg is treated as a person under the law, then miscarriage becomes a crime scene. This isn’t fearmongering—it’s fact. And it’s why our work matters. Because no one should face handcuffs for heartbreak. (Read more)
Mom’s Kids Learn They’re Rainbow Babies—Thanks to Bluey
When Maine mom Sadie Trask posted an Instagram reel about her kids learning what a rainbow baby is, she didn’t expect it to go viral. But the video hit home for thousands—because it showed how naturally kids can grasp the concept of life after loss. Sadie’s oldest son, Payton, was born after her first pregnancy ended in miscarriage 13 years ago. She hadn’t hidden that part of their family story; it just hadn’t come up—until her mom mentioned it, and the kids made the connection through an episode of Bluey. The beloved children’s show subtly references pregnancy loss through Bluey’s mom, Chilli—opening the door for healing conversations in homes everywhere. For Sadie, the realization was emotional: her children not only understood what a rainbow baby was, but wanted to talk about the sibling they never got to meet. It’s a reminder that even the quietest grief has a place in family stories—and that kids are often ready for more truth than we think. (Read more)
New Bill Aims to Expand Access to Holistic Fertility Treatments
A new piece of legislation—the RESTORE Act—could make fertility care more inclusive for couples who want to avoid IVF. Introduced by Senators Cindy Hyde-Smith and James Lankford, the bill would fund research, provider training, and access to treatments that address the root causes of infertility—like hormonal imbalances, endometriosis, and chronic inflammation. Many couples, especially those with moral or financial concerns about IVF, have long struggled to access options like NaProTECHNOLOGY, which focuses on restorative reproductive care. Supporters argue this bill is a step toward giving families more choices. But the proposal also comes at a time when reproductive autonomy is under increasing threat—and critics are wary of how these policies intersect with growing efforts to restrict abortion and IVF access. More support for fertility care is overdue—but how it's delivered, and who it's for, still matters. (Read more)
Must-Read Story of the Week
Supplements That Help Support Ovulation
If you’re trying to conceive—or trying again after loss—it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by information, pressure, and uncertainty. While some people get pregnant quickly, for many others it’s more complicated, especially after a miscarriage. This guide offers clear, supportive information on how ovulation works, what to expect after a pregnancy loss, and how long it might take your cycle to return. It also breaks down supplements that may support fertility, like folic acid, omega-3s, CoQ10, and myo-inositol. With insights from fertility expert Dr. Anate Brauer, it’s a helpful resource for anyone looking to understand their body, time conception more effectively, or take gentle, proactive steps on their path to parenthood. Because even when the journey feels heavy, having knowledge—and options—can be empowering.
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If this week’s stories stirred something in you—grief, jealousy, confusion, or just the ache of being left out—you’re not alone. This season may celebrate new life, but we know it can also reopen old wounds. Your story matters, even if it’s not being posted. Your love is real, even if the world doesn’t see who it’s for.
We’re holding space for the silent seasons and the unseen hearts.
—Miscarriage Movement